Tag Archives: couple therapy

It’s your shadow that causes your stagefright.

Many years ago my teacher Ron Kurtz held a workshop with 40 participants where I was assisting him. Everybody waited excitedly. Ron said: “Welcome and hello” to everybody.  And then it happened. All I was able to hear were the murmurous words: “My dear friend Roland will explain the first principle of our HAKOMI-method to you. […]

Dialogues that make a difference – how couples manage to talk about themselves and with each other.

Better than viagra or seeing the divorce lawyer: profound dialogues. When I work in my seminars or coaching sessions, where mostly the main topic is a professional one, I usually end up counseling personal problems. Be it that a couple is always in fight mode which leads to the husband having to work overtime at the office […]